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Why can't I send a link or phone number in my first message?

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In a first message to someone new, Bakkar doesn't send links, phone numbers or social media handles. They're fine once the other person replies.

The most common way a stranger scams or harasses someone is by moving them somewhere else fast: "add me on WhatsApp", "check my profile here", "call me". Holding these back until there's a reply means nobody can be pushed off Bakkar by a person they never answered.

Examples

First messages, checked by the same code the app runs
First messageWhat happens
hey! add me on insta @meera.travelsHeld back until they reply
call me 98765 43210Held back until they reply
check this out www.example.comHeld back until they reply
my youtube channel youtube.com/@cookwithmeHeld back until they reply
wa.me/919876543210 pe msg karoHeld back until they reply
hi! saw you like trekking too. done Kedarkantha?Sent
telegram pe aa jao, wahan baat karte hainSent

The last example gets through, because it has no link, number or handle in it. That's the limit of an automatic check: it can stop the easy cases, not every trick. If someone keeps pushing you to another app before you know them, treat it as a red flag (see "let's move to WhatsApp").

Where else the same check runs

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